Wednesday, September 01, 2004

Advice

Every now and then (this means all the time )…. I get phone calls from friends askin for advice….(since Im the expert…lol )….its mostly “there is this girl/guy….I kinda like him/her…but u know…I don’t know…I don’t know if it will work out….wat should I do??”

So I figured I’ll put up this section on relationships…so I can just go…look at this section and u will find the answer…haha..u know so I wont have to repeat myself….

Neway… since Im practical and almost always reasonable…here r the choices to pick from…depends on ur situation and ur level of feelings…(haha….science experiment)

So….u like somebody and then….u decide….how much u like her and how far r u willin to go for her/him…like how much to sacrifice…??...this is especially true if u r different from each other

A -- u like her/him so….u do wat she/he wants to keep her/him happy….this is ur level of feelings r soo high….and u r willin to go along way!


B -- u like her/him but u dont want to change....so tell her/him up front...if she/he doesnt mind ...that’s great….its betta to tell everythin up front….


C -- u like her/him but u dont want to change...so tell her/him... if she/he minds…then its prolly betta to not prolong it.... again even if it wont work out…its betta to be honest!


D -- u like her/him...but don’t like some things about him/her…..so u try change her/him…just like u want her/him to be...good luck with this one….cos face it….its not gonna happen…and that too like some1 for who they r….but still u can always try


E -- u like her/him and u both tell each other wat u r like….and then u both decide to compromise....lil bit this or that...temporary probs right away….but u know wat..its only temporary…..its worth it all the way!!

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