This is awesome..they make it sound soo real...its not!….lol…its funny though....might be borin to most…
Who You Are:
You have a dazzling personality
You're a strong, honest, and deeply loyal woman. In a crisis, you're the one co-workers and friends come to for help. They know you'll give them straightforward, common sense advice. You can always be counted on to do what you say and say what you mean. You are calm and rational through most fights and tend to deal with facts. You take pride in your work. In fact, you are such a perfectionist that at times this part of your life has pushed romance and fun to the "back burner." But you're not one to "settle" and so constantly strive to find balance in your life.
Quirk: You are very stubborn and practical which may be changelling to many people around you. You're not someone who "wears her heart on her sleeve" so even those closest to you don't always know how you feel. When someone special in your life invests the time to get to know you on a deeper level, they'll discover the more sensual and warm parts of your personality.
What's dating all about to you?
Finding a loving relationship is a mission for you. You have clear goals and even a timeline in mind. Falling in love is an especially magical experience. You're suddenly free from the rules and thinking that guide your life. You usually keep your feelings and life under control. But remember, the bigger the dam, the bigger the flood when it breaks!
You face two major challenges in finding the love of your life. First, you are scared of it and feel that it is too good to be true. It is hard for your deeper and caring self to come through. It feels risky to share this part of yourself because you are waiting for it to break anytime. Second, although having a vision of what you want can be helpful, the risk is that tend to take long to heal and so causes immense pain and hurt within you that you do not want to share.
Here's how you compare with other women your age
How unique is your type?
Your personality profile is not similar to a number of women your age. Looking at over 10,000 women who have taken the test, about 7% (or 1 in 14 women) have very similar beliefs, values, and habits. Of course, the way these qualities are expressed in you is what makes you so unique.
How many other women have personalities like you?
Quirks men notice
Like all women, you have your strengths as well as your quirks and shortcomings. Ultimately, you want to find someone who will love and accept you "warts and all." Though you have lots of friends, it's important to have at least one person in your life who understands.
- You have a pretty even-tempered personality and may not have any annoying or quirky habits. Of course, seeming to be "perfect" could be seen as a flaw by some, in which case you may just want to pretend to have a bad habit!
Notice that 41% of men are generally attracted to your personality type. 4% say they are VERY attracted. With millions of people, that translates into lots of potential matches.
How many men are attracted to your type?
Who You're Looking For
He'll be an enigma
You're looking for a "real" man, who's down-to-earth and can enjoy the simple things in life. He'll love to work with his hands and be able to fix almost anything. In fact, he's a very sensual man who enjoys touch and affection. One side of him enjoys hanging out with groups of friends. He's the type of person people come to for practical, no-nonsense advice. Yet he also has a more quiet and shy side that makes him a little hard to get to know. But he's worth the effort! Over time, he'll open up and want to talk about what he sees as most important in life. Even though he won't be one to talk a lot about his feelings, he'll often show how he feels through his actions and practical support.
You don't expect your partner to be in a good mood all the time. You understand that sometimes your partner will be down, get pessimistic or worry too much. These days are balanced by the many good days the two of you will share. In fact, you share a number of positive qualities, including:
- No strong similarities were detected, which suggests that you may be more attracted to certain "opposite qualities." Please read the next sections to see if you may be seeking someone with different or opposite qualities to balance your own habits and style.
Number of men your type
Men with the exact type of personality you prefer are rare gems. Looking at over 10,000 men who have taken this test, only 6% (or 1 in 16 men) have the exact combination of similarities and contrasts in personality you find extremely appealing.
However, there's a larger group, 30% (or 1 in 3 men), who have most, but not all, of the qualities and habits you like. These subgroups are charted below.
Over half of the men have at least some of the traits you find attractive.
But you'd have a negative reaction to 5% (or 1 in 20 men), who have some or many of the characteristics you clearly dislike.
How many men are your "ideal" type?
Finding someone like you
You want to share your life with someone who has the somewhat same values, goals, and style you have. Research has shown that couples who have more in common tend to stay together longer. The qualities you find attractive (and unattractive) in men suggest you would certainly be happier with a man who's not more like you.
- No very strong similarities were detected, which suggests that you are most attracted to men who are just different from you. This is not good news since similar couples tend to stay together longer.
The truth is that everyone is potentially "high maintenance." We all have our quirks and shortcomings. The key to long-term harmony is finding a man who can tolerate (or maybe even enjoy) your "quirks," or the little personal oddities that make you unique. You seem okay with several common quirks that might come along with your "ideal" man:
- You described a pretty balanced person as most attractive to you, so no strong quirks were noted. Watch out for quirks during dating, since they may indicate a strong quality that is hidden at first.
In addition to his quirks, your "ideal" personality type may have other qualities that are more frustrating or challenging to deal with. Under stress, his quirks can become serious "flaws." But remember, you are perfectly capable of handling them and your personality shows that you try to see the 'good' side of a person. So, be prepared if:
- Because you're most attracted to men with balanced personalities, no troubling differences were noted. Nevertheless, remember that too much differences can lead to conflict as well, especially when problems call for very different perspectives or actions.
You seem ready to adapt to the good and frustrating qualities of the men you're looking for, but there are types of men you clearly do NOT like. Men's habits and attitudes you'd have a hard time putting up with include:
- Men who expect you to be active and adventurous early in a relationship.
- Men who are "touchy-feely" (need to discuss their emotions frequently, may cry at movies, etc.) and make major decisions, like whether to move, or which job to take, based on feelings rather than objective facts.
- Men who have a strong need to make their plans ahead of time and stick to them.
| Good Qualities | Challenging Qualities |
|---|---|
| Tries to balance spending time with a few close friends and going out with a big group of friends. | Given the demands of family, friends, and activities, it's hard to find time alone together. |
| Uses "common sense" to make practical decisions. | Can lack imagination and stick to traditional solutions even if you suggest newer and better options to explore. |
| Can step back and look objectively at a problem, which can be helpful to you in any crisis. | Almost impossible to turn off analysis and thinking about what's happening. |
| Tries to be decisive, but still not rush into anything. | How much attention is given to problems and how decisions get made seems unpredictable. |
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